Your TF is your exact same energy in the complementary polarity, so in accordance to the energetical Laws of the Universe, the pull to your TF is very magnetic. Sometimes you will feel it in an overwhelming way.
So if there are days you are feeling an intense pull to contact your twin, it’s normal. And don’t ever feel bad about it. It seems there’s this mistaken idea out there that we should refrain from thinking or missing our twin or that we should resist all instances of contacting them. That this is not surrendering. But surrendering really does not mean this. I have a post on what surrendering really is, you can check it out here.
You can reach out and contact your twin. There’s not a law in the Universe against this. Though of course you need to be respectful of things like your twin being in a relationship with someone else, or your twin having asked for no contact.
But before you contact your twin, you need to consider some extremely important things:
Are you holding any kind of expectation from the interaction? If you’re really honest with yourself, what are you hoping for?
See, expectations are a big no no in the TF Journey. I had to learn that the hard way in my own Journey to Union. Expectations just led me to low-vibration situations.
This is because expectations are rigid. They attach us to the outcome we want. They produce in us clinginess and anxiety about this outcome. And since they are rigid, they go against how the Universe is. The Universe freely flows, and expectations go against that flow. So it’s never a good idea to have expectations on our Journey. Instead, we should detach from any expectation and let things flow with a positive stance that things happen for our benefit and for our progress on our Path.
Furthermore, if your interaction with your twin will cause these expectations to be unmet (in other words, if you’re let down…again), are you going to fall into low vibrations because of it? Are you going to dwell in pain, frustration, grief, resentment, etc?
So see, you need to consider how prepared you are to handle whatever the reaction of your twin might be. Ponder if you are at a place in your Journey where you have a lot of self-love and self-appreciation so whatever reaction your twin has won’t make you question your self-worth. Ask yourself if you have a lot of understanding for your runner twin by remembering that they run out of fear and other low vibes, and that they hurt you to trigger you so you become aware of the healing you need to do.
Consider if you have enough compassion and unconditional love for them… if you do, then congrats, contacting your twin will never be a problem for you. Because whatever reaction your twin has won’t make you judge them, blame them, demand from them, expect from them. And you won’t worry afterwards, suffer nor fall into negative emotions because of how the interaction went (if you do, that points always to inner work you need to do).
So if you are feeling right now an urge to contact them, think about these things. The Universe always wants you improving yourself (it’s for your own benefit) so take this as an opportunity to reflect on this.
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