Not thinking about your twin is for the vast majority of twins, impossible. Your twin is your exactly same energy in the opposite polarity, so they are magnetic to you. This attraction is part of how the Universe works. So of course you cannot forget them or pretend to do that!
You cannot forget them since the Universe and your Soul will always send you reminders of your twin! Because before incarnating, you and your twin agreed to take on the TF Journey here on Earth. You knew that it would be for your benefit. And even though you forgot that once you were here, the Universe will keep reminding you that you are on this TF Journey. The Divine will honor what you wanted to do.
So many things will happen to you that will remind you of your twin. Even if you want to quit or move on, you will keep getting all kinds of synchronicities, such as surprising “coincidental” events, repetitive numbers, songs, people who look like your twin, etc. All in an effort for you to remember your TF Journey, the one you said you wanted to follow.
The TF journey is about working on yourself to get a much improved version of you. That’s why your twin showed up. So it’s for your highest good. Expect the Universe to continue reminding you of that.
I’ve heard that some coaches talk a lot about detachment, emotionally letting go, “erasing” your twin from your life, etc. But this does not align to how the Universe and the TF dynamic is. This is actually harmful advise, and impossible to achieve anyway.
So can you think and have emotions towards your twin? The answer is YES. But you need for these thoughts and emotions to be positive ones.
The crucial way in which you should think or feel about your twin is with the positive emotions, the high vibrations.
If you are engaging in the positive emotions then you are first and foremost benefitting yourself, and then your twin and the connection. This is because all positive vibrations make you progress on your TF Journey.
So go ahead and feel emotions like love, forgiveness, gratitude for your twin.
You also have to avoid as much as possible falling into low vibrational energy, like fear, sorrow, pessimism, etc. while thinking about your twin, because this kind of energy, which is negative, drags your vibration down, doesn’t let you advance on your Journey and increases the energetical barrier between you and your twin.
But if you do fall into negativity, it’s a great opportunity to dig within to see what is really the root cause of it (usually fears and mistaken or self-limiting beliefs you have been accumulating all your life). Then you can work on this to overcome it.
In other words, you heal yourself. I have this article to help with this.
And if you have trouble forgiving your twin for all the pain they have caused you, this article might help with it.
The best thing you can do whenever you are reminded or them, is to send them your best wishes that they can progress on their path, learn their lessons, grow. Send them good energy, no matter what they have done, do or don’t do. Because this uplifts your energy and the connection so much.
When I was running, my own twin says that he thought about me every single day we were in separation. But he did send me his good energy, love and forgiveness from afar. And we both agree this helped me so much, so I could progress on my Journey. This is part of the reason why we could achieve permanent Union.
So forget about forgetting your twin. If they’re really your twin this won’t be possible. But approaching this situation with a much higher perspective and intention is very possible, and will only bring good results.
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Kurt of New World Allstar encourages twins to detach completely and forget about getting into union and that’s when your twin comes back. He says they feel our energy when we think about them and that keeps them away. He claims to have 5000 students and his program works because he’s using old fashion Zen teachings. I find it extremely difficult to not think of my twin, I day dream about him when I want to escape the reality of him not being there ( we are in separation , ) I like that you say it’s okay to think about our twins because I can’t stop.
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I find this teaching from Kurt is NOT aligned to how this TF dynamic really works, nor to how the Universe is.
The Universe will always be reminding you of your twin. So It doesn’t want you forgetting about them. But any suffering you get from remembering or thinking about them is valuable, because it points to negative energy you have within yourself, so that you become aware and heal it.
If you think about your twin with positive energy, then you are doing things well.
Getting together again with our twin (either for a short time or permanently) is never dependent on not thinking about our twin. Our Higher Self (HS) and their HS orchestrate reunions (short-term meetings) so that we learn more lessons (usually by our twin triggering us). And final Union is only dependent on the high vibration of twins.
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That’s why I stopped watching his channel. It does no take sense at all and it does not work. Half of my turmoil has been because of trying to follow such advice.
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