Many twin flames wonder why they have to suffer so much because of their twin’s words or actions.
When you are in pain because of it, what are you hoping for? That your twin acknowledges their mistakes, understands the connection and runs to your arms, never to leave your side, living both happily ever after?
But do you realize that if your twin does this, it would be detrimental for both of you? Yes, detrimental because it would go against the higher purposes of this divine connection!
Because if your twin does what you desire, you would be so content to have your twin back as you wished, and you would conform to a life where you don’t feel the need to shed all the negativity within, or you would do it very slowly. You wouldn’t be triggered as much so you wouldn’t grow as much either.
Realize that our greatest learning always comes from the toughest and most painful situations in our life.
When we have it easy, do we really learn much?
So you and your twin knew this before incarnating, and out of love for each other agreed to trigger each other so you would have to face all your negative energy, all your darkness, all those fears, unhealed traumas and lack of self-love. Everything that you hold within that is not good for you because it drags you down.
That is why twins treat each other that way. As painful and confusing as it is, it has an extremely valuable goal: a much better version of you. A new you, who vibrates higher and sees life in a much better way. A new you who is lighter, freer, happier, healthier, ready to share your Love and your Light around.
So take heart! Yes, you have to do the inner work, but ultimately it will be extremely beneficial to you and to your twin also, since you are the same energy.
Therefore stop anxiously overthinking about your situation with your twin. Focus on you and the work you have to do on yourself, your healing and improvement. That is the most important reason why you met your TF, and the way to achieve lasting harmony with them.
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