How the pain and obsession for your twin is overcome

Yes, it hurts so very much! You long for your twin to be there with you, or to communicate with you. To show you some kind of acknowledgement or tell you what you wish so much to hear. But days, weeks and months go by, and things do not go the way you want.

You spend countless hours thinking about them, longing for them, crying for them. Maybe you consult psychics, tarotists, astrologers, twin flame readings or any other divination practices to know if and when they are going to contact you or come back, or if they think about you.

But the deep pain never leaves you. And even if you try to forget your twin, even if you don’t want to have to do with them anymore, they are in your mind constantly.

Gosh, you even keep getting the synchronicities that remind you of them!

You then wonder why this Twin Flame experience is so hard, why can’t you just forget about them and move on. Sometimes you even wish you had never met them, because at times, you feel the pain is the worst you have ever had in your life.

But as difficult as all this is, know that the Universe is not being cruel to you. Because what you are experiencing has a purpose that is really for your entire benefit. Let me explain.

Before incarnating, you and your twin agreed that you both would meet at some point in your lives here. You knew that this would launch you into a spiritual journey. You agreed that a lot of triggering would happen, and that one or both of you would run from the connection. You agreed to all of this because you knew it would be for your benefit, since all the triggering and suffering would prompt you to do the inner work of cleansing negativity accumulated inside you throughout your life (fears, traumas, mistaken negative beliefs, resentment, etc.) and to heal and find self-love and self-worth.

You knew that doing this work would lead you to a much better version of yourself. To vibrate much higher.  To be healthier, happier, freer, wiser.

Of course once we are in 3D we forget everything we agreed to do before incarnating. But the Universe and your Soul know what is best for you, and they will honor and support what you agreed upon. So they will not let you forget your twin flame.

Actually, you will get constant reminders of them. This includes your thoughts, that can seem to border on obsession; your feelings of deeply longing and missing your twin; and the many synchronicities happening to you, like repeating numbers and hearing their name unexpectedly or seeing people who remind you of them.

The good news is that once you start to do the required inner work or healing in a consistent and committed manner, your vibration gets higher and higher. As this happens, you leave lower vibrations behind, so the pain and longing for your twin flame begin to subside. GUARANTEED. After all, you are not an energetical match to this anymore. It is how energy works.

And with a higher vibration, you also start viewing everything relating to your twin with a different perspective, one that is calmer, wiser, more positive and more true, so one that serves you better.

This is what my clients who have been dutifully doing their inner work always report to me. They are not in pain anymore. The obsession is gone. They have regained their peace, and they are now enjoying the rewards of their work in their life. And they have nothing but high vibrational emotions for their twin, like unconditional love and gratitude. They are finally free from the suffering!

So be much encouraged. Know that you do have total control over this matter, even if right now it doesn’t seem so. You can definitely end the pain you are feeling. Commit to your inner work and healing to elevate the state of your energy, and watch things improve so much for yourself and for every aspect of your life, including your TF Journey.
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