Having any kind of expectations about our twin flame or the relationship with them is one of the biggest blocks or hindrances on this Twin Flame Journey. You will not get any kind of beneficial outcomes by having them. They are actually very harmful, and they won’t let you advance.
The results or consequences of expecting things from your twin will show you again and again how mistaken you are by having expectations.
I had to learn this the hard way on my own Journey. So this is why I share this with you.
But why is expecting our twin to do this or that, or the relationship to go this or that way, so harmful?
Say that your twin contacts you to meet for coffee and catch up. You could be happy that you’ll be able to see them and interact with them. That’s good. But then you start creating scenarios in your head. Maybe your twin is finally understanding things. Maybe they have missed you a lot. Maybe they’ve already seen how much they really need you. Maybe they understood how unique and precious what you both had was.
Maybe they want to end the relationship they are currently in to give a chance to both of you. Maybe they have spiritually awakened, healed or grown more. Maybe Union is closer. Etc, etc, etc.
When the time comes for you to meet them, you have at least one expectation about your twin. Probably several.
Prepare for the Universe to show you that this is not the way to go.
The reason is because in expectation we desire or are set on a particular outcome. And we are ready to be disappointed or have a low emotion if we don’t get what we expected.
Oh yes! we are absolutely ready to feel disappointed, frustrated, hurt, despaired, angry, worried, etc if in the meeting our twin didn’t provide what we expected, or actually even provided quite the opposite.
One young client of my coaching sessions went through this. Her twin asked to meet up. She was naturally so eager to see him. And it turned out that when catching up, he mentioned how great things were going with his current girlfriend, and that he wished my client wound find someone great too. She was quite devastated because of all the expectations she had. And I know of many other cases like this too.
Why is having expectations so harmful? Because when we expect something, we are rigid, attached, clingy. We are not surrendering. And why is this a problem? Because deep inside, we do it because we are fearful that if we don’t get what we want, we won’t be happy. And we fear for things to be unpredictable, of us not being in control.
This is harmful because fear is the most negative, densest, most damaging negative energy of all.
It will always get you non-beneficial outcomes.
Furthermore, when we expect things and are rigid we simply don’t let things flow. And that is not the nature of the Universe, because the Universe is always flowing. We have to learn to flow with It.
What we can have instead of expectations is faith and expectancy. These are high vibrations in which we do let things flow.
In these vibrations, we can have positive goals. But we don’t have a set deadline, way in which it will happen, fixed circumstances, etc that our 3D thinking mind came up with and is expecting. We are not letting our ego dictate to the Universe when, what, how things are going to happen. Instead, we trust that since we’re doing our inner work, advancing and engaging in positive energy, elevating our vibration, our goals will be possible, since doing this follows the energetical Laws of the Universe that state that positive energy always attracts positive energy.
It’s best if we set the intention to the Universe that things that happen be for our good, for advancing on our Path.
But again, we’re letting things flow. And we make an effort not to be anxious, worried, clingy, etc. Instead we can be hopeful and content. Even grateful! Because working towards our goals is already benefitting us. It’s not just a means to an end. So we focus on this instead of only thinking about achieving our goals.
I hope this helps anyone struggling with this very common and difficult issue on this Journey!
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