So you finally were at a point in your Journey where you felt reasonably peaceful about your twin flame situation. The merciless obsession was thankfully gone, and the longing moved to the background. Things relating to your twin were still painful, of course, but not as terribly painful as before. You realized that you could carry on with your life with less disruption. You were relieved, hoping that this meant you could finally move on, even though you fully knew you’d always feel love for your twin. But you wanted to do your life, not be endlessly chained to this TF torture.
So things finally were going better…
But wait…! Looks like the Universe had other plans for you…
Because all of a sudden, the obsession and painful longing returned! And very likely this just happened without any reason you could discern. You went to bed feeling fine one night, and the next morning there you were again, immersed in the endless pool of pain…
I know, it is baffling, maddening and agonizing! But… there is a good reason why this happens (as there’s always for everything on this crazy journey).
See, before coming to Earth, you and your twin knew how negative the system on Earth was, and that you’d be taking in a lot of negative energy in the form of fears, traumas, lack of self-love and self-worth, insecurity, resentment, etc.
So out of immense unconditional love for you, your twin agreed to trigger you by their painful behavior towards you, so you would have to face all your negative energy. Everything that you hold within that is not good for you because it drags you down and makes you react negatively to challenges in your daily life.
You agreed to meet your twin precisely to heal from this negativity accumulated within you and improve your state. So in other words, you met them to raise your vibration.
The TF Journey is a mechanism purposefully designed to ensure this. It “uses” the immense love that exists between twins, and then the terrible pain of separation or refusal to commit from your twin, in order to push you into doing what you promised you would do. And as long as you are not doing this, the terrible TF pain and longing will be your companion.
Tough and cruel? Watch the Universe and your Soul raise an eyebrow and remind you that if it weren’t for this terrible pain, you would not move your very cute derrière to improve yourself in a fast way!
Because you know well how us humans here in 3D are. Even when we are fully aware of negative things we have, of traits or behaviors we have that are not good for us, it is very rare for us to take real steps to change, to heal. After all, working on ourselves is hard.
But we signed up for this Journey, and our Soul and the Universe won’t let us forget.
This Journey is what higher realms call an accelerated personal ascension. One that takes commitment, perseverance and determination.
Therefore, whenever you are taking real steps in healing and improving yourself, the TF pain and obsession subside.
You are not an energetical match to it like before. That time when you had regained some measure of peace and hoped you were moving on, was when you had been improving your state. Maybe you had been letting go of an addiction or bad habit; perhaps you had started a practice of meditation to contact your Soul or Higher Self; it could be that you had forgiven someone who caused you a lot of harm in the past and therefore you got rid of that heavy negative load of resentment; maybe you had been doing energy work to transmute your negativity, etc.
All these steps were in the right direction because you were raising your vibration . But when you stopped doing them or did them too infrequently, or when an important negative block came up for you to address but you were ignoring it, the TF pain returned. It is simply an automatic response. How energy works.
Consequently, use any pain, obsession, longing for your twin as a “THERMOMETER”, as a reliable indicator to measure how well you are doing your work to raise your vibration.
If the pain doesn’t end, intensifies or returns, it is a sure sign that you need to step up your inner work, examine any blocks, contact with more frequency your Higher Self (as in meditation), love and appreciate yourself much more, etc. All of this is for your total benefit and that of your Journey, after all!
Wishing you all the best with it!
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