After meeting your twin flame and going through all the painful experiences that sooner or later happen in all TF dynamics, you seek answers to understand what the heck happened. How a relationship so immensely beautiful, heartfelt and profound, like you’ve never known could exist, ended up the way it did.
At some point you come across the TF concept, and many things finally begin to make sense. But still, your mind is not convinced, so you keep looking into other alternatives (or maybe you had seen some before). You research what mainstream psychology says about relationships. You listen to what your friends and family offer as their opinion, usually well-meaning. You look into things like unrequited love and limerance.
You come across what former believers of the TF concept are now saying against it, many times in very negative or embittered ways. You watch shows or documentaries that expose twin flame cult-like organizations, leading to many saying that the TF concept is a scam. Or you might be invalidated by psychics or spiritual practitioners who do not believe in the concept, since they are not on the TF Journey themselves.
You then find yourself in a struggle to discern what is true and what is false about the extremely baffling and painful connection you had with this person that you call your twin flame. The struggle is very real and understandable.
But do you want to know why the struggle really happens?
It has to do with this fact:
A genuine TF connection is far more than a 3D romance or friendship. It is a higher dynamic, that involves the higher dimensions.
This is why you get all the “supernatural” things. All the synchronicities like repeating numbers, seeing or hearing your twin’s name a lot or when you least expect it, seeing people who look a lot like your twin, seeing your twin’s car model a lot more than usual, meaningful songs with surprising timing, etc. Experiencing vivid dreams, visions, feeling of their presence, telepathy of thoughts and emotions, chakras activating (especially the heart chakra), opening of psychic or creative abilities. Or if you already had those, they intensify or you discover more now.
You experience a baffling familiarity with your twin, as if you knew them from before. And a sense of being home, like that is truly where you belong and have subconsciously looked for all your life.
So no, definitely this is not a mere 3D relationship. Again, it is far more than that, and if you try to fit it into the mold of a 3D connection, you will not be able to do it, ever. The normal common-sense rules for a 3D relationship do not apply either.
The big problem and struggle arise when you keep trying to understand your TF connection using your 3D mind. Because you see, your 3D thinking mind was made only for comprehending things that solely belong to 3D. It cannot go beyond that.
Your 3D thinking mind does not have the capability to understand higher-dimensional things, like the TF dynamic is.
The only part of you that understands this is your Soul or Higher Self. Which talks to you through your heart and your intuition.
This is the reason for what my twin told me one day when he had seen me struggling over and over to understand our dynamic. Because I had been all my life a very rational, logical, factual person who chose a scientific career, I believed everything could be solved with my logical mind. But he told me: “You will not be able to understand these things with your mind. It simply does not have the capability. You need to understand all this with your heart, which is the portal to your Soul.”
This was not easy for me to apply, but when I gradually started connecting to my Soul or Higher Self, it was immensely helpful. And when I did it frequently, it gave me great results.
Because when you do that, you are able to understand your TF dynamic so much more. You get great insights and answers. So this is why it’s my number one advice to twins, and in my one-on-one coaching sessions I share with them how to do it, and how to understand the guidance if they are having some difficulty with it. Because connecting with our Soul or Higher Self is extremely important on this Journey.
At times your 3D mind will still try to override the connection you have with your Soul, to negate your intuition and “protect” you from higher-dimensional things. It could try to convince you that what you experienced with your twin were things like a trauma-bonding relationship, narcissistic co-dependency, anxious-avoidant attachment, limerance, toxic relationship and similar stuff.
But understand that all these things lack the number one sign of a genuine TF connection:
an ACCELERATED SPIRITUAL AWAKENING
This spiritual awakening happens some time before meeting your twin, when you meet them or some time afterwards. It centers around meeting your twin for the first time, or in some cases, the second time after many years of no contact. Or if you were already into spiritual things, a marked or accelerated deepening of your spirituality.
And of course they also lack all the supernatural stuff we already talked about.
A genuine TF dynamic can involve negative behavior from one or both twins that is very difficult to deal with. Things like co-dependency, low self-esteem, narcissistic-like traits, fear of intimacy, etc. The TF Journey is meant to show twins all these wounds, unhealed trauma and fears that they both had before meeting each other. It is therefore not the TF connection that created them. And they are very much meant to be triggered, especially by hurtful behavior, so that they can be addressed and properly healed.
So stop trying to understand your TF dynamic with your 3D thinking mind, with your 3D logic, with 3D-only resources like mainstream psychology. Stop listening to people talking very negatively also, whatever their intentions are. You will not find the answers there.
Instead, connect within.
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