Meeting a “False Twin Flame” is not something that happens to all twins. But it happens to a good portion of them, enough so that I want to share knowledge about this topic, because there seems to be a lot of confusion about it.
And I am not referring of course to an “x” person who gets involved with someone and calls them their twin flame, when they are not a twin flame and couldn’t care less about the genuine concept. This is just ignorance about the concept, deceit or at worse, a scam to get some kind of benefit.
And speaking about scams and falsehoods, do not fall for the mistaken idea that if someone you considered your twin flame treated you not the way you wanted, then they must be a false twin, and your real twin is somewhere out there. You just have to wait for them or seek them out and they will make your life wonderful..! No, this is never how the TF Journey is, since this would entirely defeat the purpose of this dynamic. Therefore do not deceive yourself that way.
So no, I am not talking about this, I am talking about a real soul phenomenon which is quite fascinating. It happens when one of our soulmates who has very similar soul energy to our TF shows up in our life. The similarity of their energy to our twin’s energy might manifest in different ways, like similar physical looks, or similar personalities, astrological makeup, important parallelisms in the lives of both, etc.
I prefer the terms “near twin flame” or “catalyst” over “false twin flame”, as they are of a much more positive connotation. Because after all this phenomenon has no intention of deceit or falsehood at all. If it happens to us, it was something we ourselves decided before incarnation.
So how does this works? Well, since the energy of our “near twin” is so similar to our twin’s, when we meet them we can experience some of the same energetical occurrences that do happen to us with our real twin flame. The romantic and sexual attraction is there. The love, the familiarity. Some synchronicities happen, like seeing repeating numbers. And other psychic activities.
And for sure, we experience an accelerated spiritual awakening too. We start to become interested in spirituality, or if we were already into spiritual things, we get deeper into that.
However, it is with our real twin flame that we experience with more intensity all of these things that I listed above, and others too. Because of course, our twin is our same identical energy, that no one in the Universe is. So with a “near twin” not all the TF stuff happens, or it happens with less intensity.
In my experience as a TF coach, the majority of twins who will meet a “near twin” meet them before meeting their real twin flame. Only a few meet them afterwards.
But why does this happen? Why do twins make the soul contract before incarnating to meet a “near twin” besides their real twin? It can be very confusing and frustrating, right?
Well, if we designed this for our TF Journey, it was for our benefit.
It was to learn certain important lessons that we wanted to learn, that our “near twin” was going to deliver to us and help us learn.
Usually they are challenging lessons, just as the lessons we face with our real twin are very tough. And actually many times we start learning these lessons with our “near twin” but we get to just partially learn them. Afterwards, when we meet our real twin and separation happens, we are made to face the same lessons again that we had only partially learned before, in order to have a chance of learning them completely.
Thus, meeting our “near twin” is a bit like a preparation for meeting our real twin, in the case when we meet them first. Preparation in the sense that we had already been discovering and tackling some of our lessons, so that they are familiar and partially or completely learned when we face them again with our real twin.
For example, one common lesson that happens in these instances is the one about our self-worth. Our “near twin” might trigger the wounds, fears and harmful beliefs we’ve had for the longest time regarding how valuable, attractive, interesting, worthy we are. Through the painful triggering and subsequent healing we might have been able to start valuing and appreciating ourselves more. And when we meet our real twin, we have more self-esteem than before, and this will be very helpful in dealing with our twin. If the lesson is not totally learned yet, our twin will still trigger us in this sense, so we keep healing even deeper and valuing ourselves much more.
Sometimes twins are not sure if they have met their real twin or the “near one”. However, they can always ask their Higher Self or Soul about this. And if you have any doubts about how to discern if you met a real twin or near one, including how to communicate effectively with you Higher Self, I can help you learn to do it in a coaching session.
The most important thing is that in either case (meeting a real or near TF) you have to start a committed process of healing and improving yourself, and learning your lessons. It’s the only way to advance on this Journey, and to achieve what we set out to do in this lifetime.
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