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The Phenomenon of the “False Twin Flame”

Meeting a “False Twin Flame” is not something that happens to all twins. But it happens to enough so that I want to share knowledge about this topic, because there seems to be a lot of confusion about it.

A genuine TF connection is NOT a psychological disorder nor a romantic delusion

After meeting your twin flame and going through all the painful experiences that sooner or later happen in all TF dynamics, you seek answers to understand what happened. At some point you come across the TF concept, and many things begin to make sense. But still, your mind is not convinced, so you keep looking…

Why the TF longing, obsession, and pain RETURN.

So you finally were at a point in your Journey where you felt reasonably peaceful about your twin flame situation. The merciless obsession was thankfully gone, and the longing moved to the background. Things relating to your twin were still painful, of course, but not as terribly painful as before. You realized that you couldContinue reading “Why the TF longing, obsession, and pain RETURN.”

The Reason Why You Met Your Twin Flame

You have probably wondered at least once, though probably many times, why is it that you met your twin flame. Why is it that your are now undergoing the TF Journey. It seems to be something not very many people go through, so why did you end up doing so?

Expectations are like poison on the Twin Flame Journey.

Having any kind of expectations about our twin flame or the relationship with them is one of the biggest blocks or hindrances on this TF Journey. You will not get any kind of beneficial outcomes by having them. In this article we will examine what beneficial things we can do instead of having expectations.

The Reason Why Running and Separation Happen on the TF Journey

In the vast majority of twin flame cases, running and separation always happen. This really cannot be prevented, despite all efforts made. So why does this happen? What is the real cause of separation between twin flames?

How to Do Inner Work on the TF Journey

As a twin flame, you have heard so much that inner work is extremely important on this Twin Flame Journey. And this is totally true. But what is inner work, and how is it done?

Your twin has not rejected you, even if it looks that way

If you are in separation, when you view the current 3D situation of your Twin Flame dynamic it looks like your twin has indeed rejected you. That they don’t understand or care anymore about the connection.
But you have to understand that so many times, things are not what they seem to be, specially in this TF dynamic.

Are you waiting for your twin flame or others to apologize to you?

You might be waiting, consciously or subconsciously, for your twin to apologize to you for all the things they have done that have hurt you. After all, you didn’t deserve any of that. You believe that maybe then you can start the process of forgiving them, right?

No, your twin flame cannot forget you

Many times when we are in separation and in no contact, the fearful thought of our twin flame forgetting us can assault us. After all, time goes by and they show no sign of remembering about us. Or even if we are in some form of contact, when we see that our twin is not interested in a relationship, we can think that eventually they will move on and indeed forget us.

How the pain and obsession for your twin is overcome

Yes, it hurts so much. You long for your twin to be there with you, or to communicate with you. But things do not go the way you want. And the pain never leaves you, and even if you try to forget your twin, they are in your mind constantly. What can you do to alleviate this pain and obsession?

Your Twin’s Higher Self is eager to interact with you

While we are doing our inner work we usually are in separation regarding our twin in 3D. But we can be very much enjoying the blissful love, company, help and support of their Higher Self. The Universe really encourages us to do this!

Are you waiting for your twin so that you can be truly happy?

So many twins believe that once they meet their twin and know how blissful the love between them is, that their lasting happiness depends on one day having a relationship or coming into Union with them. The problem with this perspective is that it makes you dependent on your twin. Even though your twin is your very best complement, the Universe wants you to understand that you cannot be dependent on anyone for your inner wellbeing and lasting happiness.

Why do I keep coming across repeating numbers and other synchronicities?

When you are on the Twin Flame Journey, it is very common to see repeating numbers like 1111, 222, 555, 1221, etc. It is also common to see or hear our twin’s name or birthday unexpectedly, see or meet people who physically or energetically resemble our twin by a lot (doppelgangers), listen to very meaningful songs unintentionally, etc. All of these are Twin Flame synchronicities. But why do they happen? What is their purpose?

Is it possible to have a romantic relationship with others who aren’t your twin?

Many times you, as the more awakened twin, wonder if you should be dating other people or having a relationship with a soulmate. After all, your own twin may be dating someone or may be in a serious relationship themselves. They could have asked for no contact and not show any interest in having a relationship with you. So why should you wait for them, right?

You are the Leader of your TF Pair

Before incarnating, your twin and you designed your Journey and decided who would be the leader of your TF unit and who would follow.  You both designed things in a way that would benefit the most the accomplishment of your purposes here.

Stop believing that you cannot come into Union or that it’s not meant to be in this lifetime

Too many times I’ve come across the belief that some twins have that coming into Union is not possible or “not meant to be” in their lifetime. This belief is absolutely mistaken and not aligned with how the Universe is. This is because the goal of all TF couples is energetical Union. Before incarnating, allContinue reading “Stop believing that you cannot come into Union or that it’s not meant to be in this lifetime”

Why your TF treats you that way: a post for suffering TFs

Many twins wonder why they have to suffer so much because of their twin’s actions. When you are in pain because of it, what are you hoping for?  That your twin runs to your arms, never to leave your side, living both happily ever after?

If you don’t truly love yourself, how can you expect your TF to do it?

If you hope that your twin shows you love because you love them, think again. You certainly feel that you love them, but do you love yourself too? On this TF Journey, one of the fundamental things we have to find is self-love. We really need to love and value ourselves. Because after all, oneContinue reading “If you don’t truly love yourself, how can you expect your TF to do it?”

Grateful for my Twin’s Relationships

I have come to the conclusion that I am deeply grateful for all the relationships that my twin has had over all his lifetimes, including this one.  I am grateful to them for having loved him, cared for him, made him happy, and more importantly, for all the lessons that they have taught him, especiallyContinue reading “Grateful for my Twin’s Relationships”

Is Union with my TF making me happy after all?

I’ve been in Union with my TF for several years now. People have asked me what it is like, and it’s really beyond anything I could’ve believed. However, does it make me happy?

What Surrendering really is

I’ve come across the belief many twins have that they need to “surrender” or stop chasing in order for their twin to come back to them. I guess that some TF coaches have been teaching this, but it is quite misguided if they make you believe that this is all you need to be inContinue reading “What Surrendering really is”

If you’re feeling an intense pull to contact your TF

Your TF is your exact same energy in the complementary polarity, so in accordance to the energetical Laws of the Universe, the pull to your TF is very magnetic. Sometimes you will feel it in an overwhelming way. So if there are days you are feeling an intense pull to contact your twin, it’s normal.Continue reading “If you’re feeling an intense pull to contact your TF”

There are no set steps to Union

I’ve been listening from some twins, including some of my coaching clients, that some TF authors say that there are “rules” or “stages” that twin flames have to go through in order to achieve Union. The truth is that there is not a set and unique road towards Union. Maybe some are convinced about thisContinue reading “There are no set steps to Union”

Not thinking about your twin is an impossible task.

Not thinking about your twin is for the great majority of twins, impossible. Your twin is your same energy in the opposite polarity, so they are magnetic to you. So of course you cannot forget them or pretend to do that! But approaching this situation with a much higher perspective and intention will only bring good results.

Shoot! Did your twin push you off a cliff?

Were you living your own life, just minding your own business, when all of a sudden your twin appeared in your life?  Did it feel great at first, but at some point they just undeservedly and unmercifully pushed you down the tallest cliff there is? Were you absolutely terrified and in pain when you wereContinue reading “Shoot! Did your twin push you off a cliff?”

Spirituality is the Most Practical Thing

Spirituality is the most practical thing we can do. It is not something abstract or ethereal that does not have much to do with daily, earthly life. On the contrary, in my experience it has been something that has influenced the practical side of my life for the better.

How to Know if TF Info and Guidance is True and for your Benefit

In the TF landscape, unfortunately there is a lot of fraud and scam going on. And there is also a lot of misinformation, either done on purpose or unintentionally. A lot of this has been harming to the TF collective. When you come across written information, YouTube or TikTok videos, coaching, programs, etc. how doContinue reading “How to Know if TF Info and Guidance is True and for your Benefit”