If you don’t truly love yourself, how can you expect your TF to do it?

If you hope that your twin shows you love because you love them, think again. You certainly feel that you love them, but do you love yourself too?

On this TF Journey, one of the fundamental things we have to find is self-love. We really need to love and value ourselves. Because after all, one of the top Laws of the Universe is:

 Love yourself deeply and genuinely, first and foremost.

You already know that your twin is your mirror. Every single thing that you have to work on within you is mirrored back to you by your twin. Yes, their words and actions that you’ve felt have been so tough or hurtful have that purpose. You look into that mirror and get to see your not-so-nice things that either you were unaware of or were trying to hide.

This mirror effect happens to help you, so you can become aware of these negative things and work to overcome them.

So if you lack self love and valuing, this is what you’ll sooner or later see in that mirror. Your twin’s words and actions won’t show much love and appreciation. They will many times show the opposite. The only way your twin can show a whole lot of love and appreciation is if you have it for yourself.

Many twins desperately long for the love of their twin. They feel they need it to fill their void inside. But no one can do that but yourself.

See, we have been negatively conditioned or programed to seek love outside of ourselves. We bought into the false idea that love is something external that we have to seek. That we have to gain. That we have to prove ourselves worthy enough of having.

This mistaken belief originated for many people when growing up, when they were made to believe that they needed the love of their parents and later on, of their peers, to prove that they were valuable. But this is simply not true. We are all infinitely valuable, always, no matter our perceived great flaws, mistakes and others’ opinions. We are all infinite Souls in these human bodies, and that alone make us so valuable.

And we are never lacking love. Love is our true nature, it’s at the core of our being. We need to connect within to feel it. And then we can perceive it coming from the Universe to us. This is why it’s so important to contact our Higher Self, who holds nothing but Unconditional Love for us. We can do this through meditation. So don’t ever think again that you are unloved, because this is a top falsehood. Once you find that love within, always send love to yourself.

Additionally, if you found love within you, you won’t need to depend on others to give it to you, not even your TF, so you won’t be demanding or expecting it. When you demand it from others, you place the responsibility of your happiness on others too, something that you are solely responsible of.

So for those of you who feel you are lacking self-love, it’s about time you do something about it. We twins are on a spiritual fast-track, so this includes finding it. As a wise young person once told me: “I’m going to finally start doing for myself what I had been expecting others to do for me, which is to love me.”

So how can you start?

You can find resources on self-love and self-value online. These great positive affirmations are wonderful.

I wish all of you reading this post the best with your self-love work. I’d like to quote a fellow TF and friend: “It took meeting my twin to show me what self-love really looks like.“

Yes, aren’t we twins fortunate that we get to be shown this!

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