You are the Leader of your TF Pair

As you already know, you and your twin are the same exact energy, that no one else in the Universe is. For the Universe, you constitute one energetical unit, similar to a battery that has a feminine pole and a masculine pole.

Before incarnating, your twin and you designed your Journey and decided who would be the leader of your TF pair and who would follow.  You both designed things in a way that would benefit the most the accomplishment of your purposes here.

So here in 3D, as the awakened or more spiritually aware twin who recognizes the TF connection, you are the leader of your TF pair or unit.  

Your inner work to remove or transmute the negative energy within you and thus raise your vibration is absolutely necessary to eliminate the energetical mismatch between your TF bond and the negativity within you. This is like tearing down the negative barrier that prevents the two poles of your unit to be in harmony and work effectively as one very powerful entity.

So this is why you have been called to do the tough inner work first, as the leader that you are. All this uplifting of your vibration greatly benefits you, but at the same time, it benefits your whole unit.

Your twin will follow you, even subconsciously, when you earnestly commit to your inner work in a consistent way. You are uplifting the energy of the whole unit after all. They will feel the energetical pull to do their to own work too, but doing it will be easier. Because you will have paved the way for them, so to speak. You will have dismantled a lot of the negative barrier between you and them. They have less of a barrier to overcome now.

But remember, in order for this to happen, you have to do the work in a committed and consistent way. You have to be continuously progressing. Energy never lies, so if you’re not doing much, not much will happen either at the energetical level, which is the level that most matters.

Being the leader of your TF pair or unit thus implies a lot of responsibility, perseverance and determination. But out of love for both yourself and your twin, you accepted this role, knowing you would have enough resources to handle it.

When I have told this to clients of my coaching sessions, I have been pleasantly surprised by them usually saying that they don’t mind being the leader, that there was a good reason why they were chosen, and that they rather be in control of the process. I find this to be a very positive viewpoint, one that serves them well on their Journey. And one that can be very helpful for all of you reading this post.

If you feel any low vibration from reading this, it’s an excellent opportunity for you to sit down with yourself and delve deep on why it is triggering this. Usually there is a fear at the root. Face it and then you can overcome it.

And yes, all this is tough work as we all very well know. But again, we came here fully knowing what we signed up for and well equipped. We have the help and full support of our Higher Selves and our spiritual guides if we ask them for it. We are totally capable of doing this!

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2 thoughts on “You are the Leader of your TF Pair

  1. I love all of your writings and thank you so much. I am on an ever changing and evolving journey with my TF. We are often apart having only reunited 2 years ago.
    Somehow this separation is crucial for our relationship. I am confused, bewildered but feel secure that we “ are “ ! Together or apart.. it’s tough but the empathy that flows between us is never spoken .. we just know. I continue to grow despite his presence but I know he is with me all the time… 🙏

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